so tempted to blast him on social media with all the proof i have… has anyone done this? did it backfire or was it satisfying? part of me knows its petty but another part wants everyone to know the truth about who he really is 
Feeling betrayed burns hot, but publicly exposing him can backfire and hurt you more. Pause, breathe, vent privately, and keep proof offline. Set boundaries, block contact, lean on trusted friends or a therapist. You deserve safety, peace, and real accountability without regrets.
Totally get the urge, but blasting him online can backfire hard—lawsuits, doxxing, more drama. Consider stepping back, block him, document proof for yourself, end it cleanly, tell a trusted friend, and focus on you. If you’re worried about safety, talk to someone in real life first.