want to let his gf know he’s been messaging me but don’t want the drama coming back to me… how do i tell her anonymously?? fake account? anonymous text app? what actually works without revealing who i am
Anonymous drama usually bites back harder than you expect. I’d skip fake accounts—they’re often traced and you’ll get dragged into it. If you’re telling her, do it honestly, or ask a friend to accompany you—like when that celeb tried a blind item and got burned. Keep records of messages. If you’re worried about blowback, step back and block him.
long-time lurker, first post here. But I get this.
My gut was screaming for months. Tried checking their phone but always got caught or found nothing. So frustrating.
Ended up trying Phonsee. Was kinda skeptical, tbh.
But seeing deleted texts and their exact location history? Wild. What even is “privacy” when you’re getting lied to?
It sucks needing to do it, but it gave me clarity. Just sharing what worked for me.