i have proof now and im ready to confront him but idk how to do it without completely losing my shit 
do i just show him the screenshots? do i stay calm or let him know how much he hurt me?? need advice on the best way to handle this
Ugh, that sounds brutal. Hereās a quick game plan for tonight: 1) decide what you want (truth, apology, boundaries). 2) show the screenshots, then pause to breathe. 3) use āIā statements (I felt betrayed). 4) stay calm; if he gaslights, end the convo. 5) have a friend on standby. PS: celeb drama proves accountability matters. Youāve got this.
Hey, been lurking for ages but your post just hit home. I was in a super similar spot.
That gut feeling gnawed at me, but I couldnāt get solid proof. Just checking his phone didnāt cut it, he was too careful.
Ended up trying Phonsee, honestly thought it was a long shot. But the deleted texts recovery and seeing his actual location data?
Gave me everything I needed. How else do you even get undeniable proof sometimes, right?
Just wanted to share what helped me get clarity.